The Ghosts of Halloween Past

The Ghosts of Halloween Past

I love Halloween. Driving through the neighborhood this time of year, admiring the elaborate displays of spookiness and horror, always puts me in a festive mood. And I especially look forward to the parade of little kids (and a few big ones!) making their way up the...
Why I Haven’t Owned a Car in Over 10 Years

Why I Haven’t Owned a Car in Over 10 Years

I just got back from Avis, where I traded in my rental car for one I like better. Nothing was wrong with the old one. I simply wanted something more comfortable and fuel-efficient. Here’s something that surprises people: I haven’t owned a car in over ten...
Adaptability Is Not a Substitute for Preparation

Adaptability Is Not a Substitute for Preparation

I’ve been back in California for over a month, preparing for jaw surgery, and I still don’t have a date on the calendar. Before leaving Maui, we were targeting the third week of October. That’s next week, and it’s clearly not happening. Since...
The Other Side of Change

The Other Side of Change

Every year around this time, I revisit my personal philosophy—my values, purpose, mission, and vision. This year’s reflection has been particularly consequential. Over the past two years, I’ve navigated some monumental changes. And I’ve discovered...
California, Maui, Repeat

California, Maui, Repeat

Mom and I arrived in California from Hawaii early last week, and I was surprised by how quickly I became productive. Some of that was planning, which I wrote about in my last note. But I realized something else was helping: I’ve made my environments in...
We’re Family

We’re Family

Today I’m flying to Oahu to spend a few days with family before Mom and I return to California on Sunday. On Friday, we’re attending a family wedding at beautiful Kualoa Ranch on the eastern side of the island. Every time I attend one of these gatherings,...